Nice guys- Do they really finish last for just being too nice?

Who are these nice guys that seem to be overlooked and rejected? Are they the shy, more like a brother because they don't come too sexual, quiet guy? Are they really rejected for just being too nice? let's find out.


I've read a few articles stating that women are mostly and supposed to be attracted to the macho tough guys aka bad boys leaving out the "nice guys".Both men and women refer to these nice guys as boring, lacking passion, too goody shoes and lacking challenge. I agree as a woman, I don't want a yes man, one who would tell me yes even when I'm wrong but does that mean I'm seeking the bad guys out? Don't think so.


An aunt once told me, the only reason girls avoid nice guys is because they seem to lack passion. Then, she proceeded to somewhat traumatize me with the story of the bad boy in her youth who made her heart hammer when he cornered her for kisses and ran his hands up her blouse. When he left her for a girl with a shorter skirt, she went ahead and accepted the proposal of my seemingly shy Uncle. "BEST night I ever had," she recalled with a grin, telling me the story. "I knew he was a giver but-" And I think I ran from the room at that point.


People mostly the women should learn to differentiate the word "Nice" and "Dull/boring". A nice guy is not necessarily boring. What a women really wants is a guy who would treat them very well without losing his appeal and edge.


I would also add guys who are flavorless and lack passion are more quick to be judgmental towards the women going leaving the nice guys out and blaming them if they get heartbroken in order to cover their own lack of passion. Nice guys don't finish last, wusses and guys who won't compete do. That's not "nice", that's just failure through lack of effort. C'mon guys, you can be very sweet and also passionate, doing things to add spark to the relationship and not just monotonous being nice.


I don't know about the women that go for the bad boys (those that beat, rough etc) but I love me some nice guys (caring, sweet, spontaneous, being a man-knowing when to say no to something wrong, passionate) which I know women love and prefer.

Choose wisely ladies and men step your game up! In the long run, nice guys never finish last.